Hope is not asking how to learn how to go out and attack some one; she is asking how to defend against those that may attack her. This is a legit question. There are plenty of times when a person may not be able to employ non violent SD measures, heck just watch the news, it happens all the time. Look at the prison populations in every country on the planet; they are filled to the brim with predatory scum who victimized some poor sole. It is important to remember that the victim is not fighting, they are defending their health or possibly their life, it is the predator that is fighting not the victim. In a true SD situation the victim is not fighting even if they must become the better attacker.
Edited by von1 (12/12/09 09:17 AM)