Nice article, pretty much agreed with you. I feel that part of the problem is how they are taught for most of a persons training. Too slow, oversized, and way to much time between block and counter, which I think you mentioned. Some parallels between Blauer's SPEAR idea and what you are saying, that your arms can often move much faster then you "think" with proper training.
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