Not everyone is you or grew up like you. Not all interpret things as you and learn de-escalation as you may have. Someone could have learned that hiting first and runing is a way to de-escalate, for an example.

I know many that can't de-escalate a fight or avoid it. They almost atract it.

ok, so I just thought of a sort of funny example. Everyone was taught how to use the potty. But I be damned if ADULTS still pi$$ on the toilet seat or can't even flush. So I think your assumption is flawed.

Edited by JasonM (05/21/08 01:39 PM)
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