Well i guess were cousins in a round about way. I trained with your dad when i was a kid. I knew him as cousin sonny. There is family here in Stockton who knew him well. I can't answer all your questions since i was just a kid. But i can talk to some of the family and maby give you some contact information. Leave me a messag at my e-mail. email@example.com.
Hope i can help.