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#256823 - 05/24/06 08:39 AM walking in graveyards
trevek Offline
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Registered: 05/15/05
Posts: 3337
Loc: Poland
I have taken up a new hobby this week. It involves walking around graveyards. I used to do this anyway, but now it is given a greater purpose.

I live in a part of Poland which was part of Germany until 1945 (it didn't become part of the 'new' Poland after WWI). Historically there was a large german speaking population, some of whom moved (or were made to move) in the post-war years.

Recently I was approached by a woman (via the internet) who had read an article I wrote about working with a village theatre group in this area. It turns out her father had been born in the village and had been drafted into the German army in WWII. He was later taken prisoner and ended up in Britain. The lady wanted to know if i could tell her about the village.

While finding some websites for her I came across a German-born living in Canada who was also root searching and whose great-grandfather had been born in the village where my wife works (a different village). I contacted him and he sent me some information about his family tree.

Hence, I have been walking around graveyards, with various levels of success looking for names and dates.

What has also become apparent is the loss this region has suffered. many of the german graves are in the far corners of the cemeteries, overgrown or destroyed; the names unreadable. Occasionally somebody might have put a flower or candle on a lonely grave but often they are forgotten... in stark contrast to the "In loving memory", a memory which is probably dead and gone, but occasionally rekindled in the root searching of someone who never knew these people.

Around me the remnants of this once thriving culture slowly fades. The old people get older and the young have no interest. The visiting 'tourists' who once lived here become older and fewer.

Perhaps, as an outsider, I notice these things more than some around here, particularly those who have always lived amongst it and do not notice the slow, gradual change. Or, those whose memories wish to forget such things which this represents. But someday I'll be left as a reminder of the last remnants and then one day i'll be gone too.

Who remembers the names, who recalls the lives, who still cries for the little child interred over 60,70 years ago who now "rests with God".

This is but a tiny corner of a world which most people will never see, never know of and never care... and I know there are millions of tiny corners all around the world.

Depressing as it sounds, I actually find this a little life affirming. sooner or later, I know I'll be in one such corner (as we all will), and I'll be a faded, and then lost, memory in the blink of the world's eye.

So, why get worried about things which are little importance. that idiot who cut me up today, the surly barmaid, the obnoxious student I have to give time too when others are more deserving...

They are but fleeting. I have better things to concern myself with, nicer people to meet, more enjoyable things to do and more splendid days to enjoy.

I'll keep visiting my new friends and keeping up my new hobby. Their eternal silence speaks volumes in reminding me that life is for living and enjoying while it is there.
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#256824 - 05/24/06 08:47 AM Re: walking in graveyards [Re: trevek]
harlan Offline
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Registered: 07/31/04
Posts: 6665
Loc: Amherst, MA
I also like to visit old graveyards. Time spent there is something like ancestor worship, and provides a sense of timelessness and continuity.

'Gravedigger' (Dave Matthews, 2003)

Cyrus Jones 1810 to 1913
Made his great grandchildren believe
You could live to a hundred and three
A hundred and three is forever when you're just a little kid
So Cyrus Jones lived forever

Gravedigger
When you dig my grave
Could you make it shallow
So that I can feel the rain
Gravedigger

Muriel Stonewall
1903 to 1954
She lost both of her babies in the second great war
Now you should never have to watch
Your only children lowered in the ground
I mean you should never have to bury your own babies

Gravedigger
When you dig my grave
Could you make it shallow
So that I can feel the rain
Gravedigger

Ring around the rosey
Pocket full of posey
Ashes to ashes
We all fall down

Gravedigger
When you dig my grave
Could you make it shallow
So that I can feel the rain
Gravedigger

Little Mikey Carson 67 to 75
He rode his
Bike like the devil until the day he died
When he grows up he wants to be Mr. Vertigo on the flying trapeze
Ohhh, 1940 to 1992

Gravedigger
When you dig my grave
Could you make it shallow
So that I can feel the rain

Gravedigger
When you dig my grave
Could you make it shallow
So that I can feel the rain
Feel the rain
I can feel the rain

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#256825 - 05/24/06 09:20 AM Re: walking in graveyards [Re: harlan]
trevek Offline
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Registered: 05/15/05
Posts: 3337
Loc: Poland
Ooooh, that's good Harlan, I like that. Is it a song?
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#256826 - 05/24/06 09:24 AM Re: walking in graveyards [Re: trevek]
harlan Offline
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Registered: 07/31/04
Posts: 6665
Loc: Amherst, MA
Yep. It's a song. Either you like the Dave Matthew's Band, or you don't. I do.

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#256827 - 05/24/06 11:56 AM Re: walking in graveyards [Re: harlan]
butterfly Offline
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Registered: 08/25/04
Posts: 3012
Loc: Torrance, CA
Well, Harlan, I like!

And Trevek, thanks for the story...it is food for thought and quiet thinking.

-B

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