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#237894 - 03/11/06 04:24 PM Best way to avoid a fight!
Diabolic Offline

Registered: 03/01/06
Posts: 256
Loc: San Jose, California
Last night me and my buddy were talking about this website. I told him about this forum and how all the posts end up being avoid the fight, or just walk away. What he said made me die laughing. He said the best way to avoidind a fight is "wear nice clothes out." "If you wear nice #$%# out, your not gonna want to mess it up."
Never underestimate the little guys.

#237895 - 03/11/06 07:25 PM Re: Best way to avoid a fight! [Re: Diabolic]
McSensei Offline

Registered: 06/15/05
Posts: 1069
Loc: Kent, England
Strangely enough that is one of the reasons certain nightclubs have dress codes.
The trouble is that people don't often think of whether or not they'll mess up their Armani suit after 10 pints of lager.

#237896 - 03/11/06 09:57 PM Re: Best way to avoid a fight! [Re: McSensei]
Ukraine Offline

Registered: 01/27/06
Posts: 46
Loc: Ontario, Canada
So true , So true.

#237897 - 03/13/06 01:29 PM Re: Best way to avoid a fight! [Re: Diabolic]
Neko456 Offline
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Registered: 01/18/05
Posts: 3260
Loc: Midwest City, Ok, USA
The best way to avoid fighting is just don't do it unless a guy/person strikes you, then you have no recourse. But thats only hype, I've taken a strike and just escaped in some situations where more of his friends are coming.

Stand by your conventions don't fight, you can always walk away, unless they force the issue by striking you. Now that I'm older I alway try to avoid fighting if at all possible, excitement ain't that important now days, life Is.

#237898 - 03/14/06 10:40 AM Re: Best way to avoid a fight! [Re: Neko456]
swseibukan Offline

Registered: 11/12/05
Posts: 196
Loc: Lakewood, Colorado

The best way to avoid fighting is just don't do it unless a guy/person strikes you, then you have no recourse. But thats only hype, I've taken a strike and just escaped in some situations where more of his friends are coming.

Best way in my book is common sense, avoid at risk areas and behaviors. But I just want to clarify your statement. Are you saying that in a confrontation you would wait for the physical attack before defending yourself and would not consider a preemptive solution?

Pat O'Brien
Southwest Seibukan

Patience my ass Iím going to kill something

#237899 - 03/14/06 03:10 PM Re: Best way to avoid a fight! [Re: swseibukan]
Neko456 Offline
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Registered: 01/18/05
Posts: 3260
Loc: Midwest City, Ok, USA
I'm saying that sometimes you have no choice, sometimes theres nothing you can say or do to stop it. So I'm going beyond the pre-empt efforts to de-escalate, you didn't know oterwise why be there like you said. Now I said sometimes most times you can talk your way out or walk away, but sometimes in the case of sucker punch/mistaken identiy or bar/gang fight just in the wrong place at the wrong time. Fists are flying and there is no legitable converstaion just fits of angry. Its fight or flight and they got the door blocked.

Or a guy sucker punches you, theres no time to talk, and when they do they get hit again, if not already floored.

As I mentioned Sometimes, you have to weigh the odds.

Edited by Neko456 (03/14/06 03:13 PM)

#237900 - 03/14/06 04:38 PM Re: Best way to avoid a fight! [Re: Diabolic]
Cord Offline

Registered: 01/13/05
Posts: 11399
Loc: Cambridge UK.
Assault: an attack on a person
Fight: Two or more people attacking one another.

Technicaly speaking you can avoid 100% of fights by simply not retaliating.

Of course most people have their limits, but you would be amazed how many people do simply NOTHING when attacked- they freeze, a little like when you see wildebeast brought down by lions, when caught they seem to just 'give up' or freeze and accept their fate. I have seen more looks of confusion on the faces of people being attacked than I have fear or anger. Though they all experience the pain and danger of violence, they have not been in a fight.

Probably a bit pedantic, but will throw it out there anyway.
Don't let the door hit ya' where the good lord split ya'

#237901 - 03/14/06 06:52 PM Re: Best way to avoid a fight! [Re: Cord]
Dalen Offline

Registered: 03/13/06
Posts: 9
Loc: nj
Oddly I agree...but while you haven't been in a fight you still go to the hospital...its just the other guy who walks away unharmed. I have as well seen that many if not most people freeze, and they walk away bloody or get carried out.
Someone mentioned avioding problem areas, dangerous is good advice, but peronally I feel that the basics are simple.
Be aware...of anything and everything around you period...doubly so in bars, or other places where fights are likely.
Notice and acknowledge posible, make eye contact, nod, say hi, etc...what will get you in trouble is confrontational got a problem...and the like.
be menatlly prepared and wholey comited to your clear and confident in speach and action- no one, or at least no one I have ever seen- has ever attacked someone who is aware of them, has acknowleged their presence and is calm, collected and obviously confident.
Stay aware- just because someone is put off by you doesn't mean they won't come back.
Ak for help- bouncers exist to help you avoid fights...if you are aware, confident etc...and you find yourself faced with a continual problem point them out to the bouncer.
Call for help (more rape deffence realy)- if a problem is noticed and the police, call a friend, go into a bar that has bouncers...a coffe shop, etc...
Only frequent clubs with bouncere...if you hang out or dance in clubs that do not have security you are almost asking for trouble.

For the self- one great way to keep yourself from starting a fight is to realise that even the worlds biggest idiot can cripple you with a lucky punch. The reality of fighting is that it is a two or more person event and the more punches you throw the more that can be thrown at you.
Sooner or latter if he fights enough even a grand master will get knocked on his hiney.
if you fight when you dont have to, you willl sooner or latter be hurt, you will also look like an idiot, and maybe be arrested.

#237902 - 03/15/06 07:47 AM Re: Best way to avoid a fight! [Re: Dalen]
Joss Offline

Registered: 01/18/06
Posts: 567
Very well said, Dalen.

#237903 - 03/15/06 09:46 PM Re: Best way to avoid a fight! [Re: Diabolic]
nekogami13 V2.0 Offline
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Registered: 04/10/04
Posts: 2643
Loc: Texas, USA
Never go anywhere, make no friends, do not talk to neighbors and move far away from all family.

This will drastically reduce any chance of being assaulted.

Of course this would be very boring, so second best would be awareness of surroundings, identify potential trouble early and move to avoid/defuse situation.
I'm sorry, I was just imaging what you would look like with duct tape over your mouth

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