Hello Eyrie:
<<You are regretting this already. I know I am.

<<Guess I stink at averting any danger
Well look at it this way... efforts like that

and you spare some other "poor soul" their pain quotent by bringing it on yourself (sic. like an electro-magnet).
Not a problem btw... do it to myself all the time,
J (True Self-Defense: Learning to get out of our OWN way on a daily basis)