I agree 100% with Ironfoot.
MA is about tough love - I can tell you how to block a high kick till I'm blue in the face, but you have to actually do it to really understand.
So, if you are truly interested in helping people (as far as MA), then you NEED to let them do things for themselves. I have found in life, this is true for most other things as well.
"In case you ever wondered what it's like to be knocked out, it's like waking up from a nightmare only to discover it wasn't a dream." -Forrest Griffin