hey guys im jsut starting this chi thing with my friend and id appreciate it very much if u could tell me how to do it or w/e and tell em some good(free) sites that explain it

No we can't. Refer to the "ground rules" of this section. YOU CANNOT LEARN ANY SORT OF MARTIAL ART FROM A BOOK, VIDEO OR INTERNET! You and your friend "meditating" in the back yard will do nothing but stimulate your over active imagination and make you believe you are "feeling" something. Find a qualified, legitimate instructor who can teach you the real uses and practices of IMA.
Enjoy life while you can, you never know when things will change.