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#152780 - 06/06/05 06:46 PM Re: Dealing with instructor with a crush [Re: restless]
Bushi_no_ki Offline
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I would advise not talking to his wife unless absolutely necessary. The drama is likely to interfere with the running of the dojo.

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#152781 - 06/06/05 09:14 PM Re: Dealing with instructor with a crush [Re: restless]
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Quote:

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You know, you could always talk to his wife about it.


Yes I can. She shows up at competitions..imagine the drama!



i would nt do that because as said above,what might seem like a crush to you will be something else for your master,if you go tell his wife whlie your master wasnt looking at you in a dirty way,you will create problems betwwen the master and his wife which could lead to a divorce,so my suggestion would be to tell him first either by a story or just say what you feel

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#152782 - 06/07/05 03:20 AM Re: Dealing with instructor with a crush [Re: awais786]
restless Offline
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Telling his wife was a joke. The wife will find out about his ways with other women without my help.

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#152783 - 06/07/05 03:32 AM Re: Dealing with instructor with a crush [Re: restless]
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Please let us know what you do and how this turns out.
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#152784 - 06/07/05 05:11 AM Re: Dealing with instructor with a crush [Re: restless]
Bushi_no_ki Offline
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He's done this before?
Maybe you should refer his wife to a good divorce lawyer if this is the case.

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#152785 - 06/07/05 06:47 AM Re: Dealing with instructor with a crush [Re: restless]
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Your problem is your business. His problem is his business. It is healthier all around to simply stay out of the way...as no one is going to thank you for unhappy news.

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Telling his wife was a joke. The wife will find out about his ways with other women without my help.



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#152786 - 06/07/05 06:54 AM Re: Dealing with instructor with a crush [Re: harlan]
MAGr Offline
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Your problem is your business. His problem is his business.




BINGO!

Someone before said i m an insensitive clod and i have set bacjk male sensitivity for 100 years!

well maybe i have but in any case, how old are you?
If you are under 18 then i think it is a problem that should be adressed to your parents.
If you are over 18 do you expect me to believe that you cant handle a guy hitting on you?
Just tell him for gods sake! Didnt your friends give you the same advice?


Edited by MAGr (06/07/05 07:02 AM)

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#152787 - 06/07/05 09:46 AM Re: Dealing with instructor with a crush [Re: MAGr]
restless Offline
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Bushi_no_ki: Not that I know of. But if a married man want to cross that line, he is just waiting for the opportunity. IMO.

I'm well over 18. But I have to disagree with you. Dealing with someone in a power position is not quite the same as dealing with other guys. You have to be smart and tactic.

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#152788 - 06/07/05 12:16 PM Re: Dealing with instructor with a crush [Re: restless]
harlan Offline
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Why do you give someone power over you? Be honest with yourself...no need to respond in this forum.


Edited by harlan (06/07/05 12:17 PM)

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#152789 - 06/07/05 01:55 PM Re: Dealing with instructor with a crush [Re: restless]
Kintama Offline
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everyone has avoided the begging question that is not very p.c. but needs to be asked (although Harlan hinted to it)

"Is she cute?"

Do you hesitate because you are attracted to her? or because there really isn't any other place to train?

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