Quote: You know, you could always talk to his wife about it.
Yes I can. She shows up at competitions..imagine the drama!
i would nt do that because as said above,what might seem like a crush to you will be something else for your master,if you go tell his wife whlie your master wasnt looking at you in a dirty way,you will create problems betwwen the master and his wife which could lead to a divorce,so my suggestion would be to tell him first either by a story or just say what you feel
Your problem is your business. His problem is his business. It is healthier all around to simply stay out of the way...as no one is going to thank you for unhappy news.
Quote: Telling his wife was a joke. The wife will find out about his ways with other women without my help.
Quote: Your problem is your business. His problem is his business.
BINGO!
Someone before said i m an insensitive clod and i have set bacjk male sensitivity for 100 years!
well maybe i have but in any case, how old are you? If you are under 18 then i think it is a problem that should be adressed to your parents. If you are over 18 do you expect me to believe that you cant handle a guy hitting on you? Just tell him for gods sake! Didnt your friends give you the same advice?
Bushi_no_ki: Not that I know of. But if a married man want to cross that line, he is just waiting for the opportunity. IMO.
I'm well over 18. But I have to disagree with you. Dealing with someone in a power position is not quite the same as dealing with other guys. You have to be smart and tactic.