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#21804 - 02/24/04 06:07 AM Problem with sensei-what do i do!?? please
Advisemeandy Offline
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Registered: 01/18/04
Posts: 20
sorry i decided it is not appropriate for me to post on here with this problem..
so so sorry for wasting all your time

[This message has been edited by Advisemeandy (edited 02-24-2004).]

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#21805 - 02/24/04 06:15 AM Re: Problem with sensei-what do i do!?? please
Advisemeandy Offline
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Registered: 01/18/04
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sorry!

[This message has been edited by Advisemeandy (edited 02-24-2004).]

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#21806 - 02/24/04 06:23 AM Re: Problem with sensei-what do i do!?? please
Shi Miao Zun Offline
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Registered: 12/17/03
Posts: 198
Loc: Windsor UK
It is clear that this has upset you but as you didnt hear what was said about you then you dont know the full story. No it may not have been nice but then again it might have been something very minor, or regarding how your training is going.

People always talk about other people, some good some bad, thats life, if they are your friends then they are probably still your friends. I would try not to worry about this and get on with your life and training and friendships as if it never happened.

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#21807 - 02/24/04 06:28 AM Re: Problem with sensei-what do i do!?? please
Advisemeandy Offline
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[This message has been edited by Advisemeandy (edited 02-24-2004).]

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#21808 - 02/24/04 06:52 AM Re: Problem with sensei-what do i do!?? please
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Hi Andy,

If you are really upset, you should speak to your sensei. As shi miao zun said, it was probably about training, and probably nothing personally detrimental.

I think you should ask about it and clear the air, especially if your sensei is approachable.
Sharon

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#21809 - 02/24/04 07:45 AM Re: Problem with sensei-what do i do!?? please
badmamajama Offline
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Registered: 11/06/03
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i agree with wadow,dont just jump to conclusions,find out be kind about it,also remember,as humans we all mess up sometimes thats why a forgiving heart toward others and ourselves is important,if your honest youve said and did things that in retrospect u wish u had not have. [IMG]http://www.fightingarts.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif[/IMG] [IMG]http://www.fightingarts.com/forums/ubb/cool.gif[/IMG]

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#21810 - 02/24/04 09:08 AM Re: Problem with sensei-what do i do!?? please
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[QUOTE]Originally posted by Advisemeandy:
sorry i decided it is not appropriate for me to post on here with this problem..
so so sorry for wasting all your time

[This message has been edited by Advisemeandy (edited 02-24-2004).]
[/QUOTE]

I was abused by my Sensi. It can damn well be personal. I didn't get a chance to read your post, but I'm sure it would have fitted the criteria for a FA post.

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#21811 - 02/24/04 09:23 AM Re: Problem with sensei-what do i do!?? please
Advisemeandy Offline
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Registered: 01/18/04
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when i reposted this it was only a cut down version of my earlier post i.e. Shi was the only one who saw and replied before i edited it.

i see what you're saying about jumping to conclusions...but its unlikely that it was about my training - because why talk about my training to another student? what business is it of theirs! - none! it only concerns me and the sensei, plus if it was wasn't something bad then why be so secretive?

what so you think?

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#21812 - 02/24/04 11:41 AM Re: Problem with sensei-what do i do!?? please
badmamajama Offline
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Registered: 11/06/03
Posts: 1509
ive made comments about women that were not bad,but thought best not to include the ladythough comment was nice ,feel a bit funny walking up to her and saying hey sweetheart your bootylicious, [IMG]http://www.fightingarts.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif[/IMG] see with out knowing for sure what was being said dont just assume,or do like i do if i see people talking and looking at me,i assume their talking about how good looking i am [IMG]http://www.fightingarts.com/forums/ubb/wink.gif[/IMG]

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#21813 - 02/24/04 12:09 PM Re: Problem with sensei-what do i do!?? please
schanne Offline
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Registered: 02/18/04
Posts: 4370
Loc: Woodbury NJ
Andy, I have been in Martial Arts since 1978. I have seen alot of bad instuctors and Sensei's, that I thought could walk on water. Many had personal bonds with their students and lost that leadership quality that the "walk on water" type Sensei's had. Just like in business a boss (Sensei) has to wear two hats, he can't get to close to his students and still maintain total respect as a Martial Arts instuctor, there is a type of distance you must maintain from your students. Just like in business you can't be out partying with your employees, one must maintain a space. Don't know the problem between you and your Sensei but he is only there to show you the way, it is up to you to get there. Define abuse. If this is two personal I understand. Bonzai

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