Posted by: Neko456
Media hype some watch too much TV thanks MMA. - 04/16/09 10:54 AM
Media hype some watch too much TV thanks MMA. Last night my Mom called and stated that my baby brother a 6' 240lb recovering drunk living with my Mom going through forclosure and Divorce is threatening himself and her with a knife. Shouting that its over and he was going to kill himself. I'm 10 miles away I jump in my car arming myeself with my butterfly and snap on P11 9mm, I enter the house and do a bldg check of the kitchen and living room its quite I call out for my Mother she comes from the back room and points toward the bed room he is in.
Here is where the conflict starts my Mom fears for her safety so talk down is out, he is in bed I call his name he says leave him alone, I grab him by his ankles and pull him out of bed. His response is too get close and start a rebuttle (here is where the topic comes in) he obviously feels that he is cutting out my use of my legs as in the MMA episodes not realizing that at this range is where I do most my business. His approach is the push and punch which caused a respond of elbow, knees and sweep making things much easier then chasing him and setting him up at distance. After getting his attention we talked about his problems and how Mom is extending herself trying to help and not to threaten because life is not treating him well. He goes on to say that he is embarassed that as grown man he is staying with his Mom, lost his house and wife. I explained that he is just one of the 1.5 millon or more people that are in that situation but the only one now threatening and upsetting my Mom. We love kiss and hug and pleadge to stay family and I head home at 2:00am.
Who says there is no need to practice self defense tactics, know this when your sport career is over as long as you got an a$$ you may have to protect it and your family members. Nothing is promised not the presence not even tomorrow. But I note even drunks watch MMA, thanks MMA for putting them in range, even if this time it was my kid brother. Mom was threaten changes everything there is no walk away imho.
Suggestions and thoughts pro and negative I'm thick skinned. How would you have handled it?
Here is where the conflict starts my Mom fears for her safety so talk down is out, he is in bed I call his name he says leave him alone, I grab him by his ankles and pull him out of bed. His response is too get close and start a rebuttle (here is where the topic comes in) he obviously feels that he is cutting out my use of my legs as in the MMA episodes not realizing that at this range is where I do most my business. His approach is the push and punch which caused a respond of elbow, knees and sweep making things much easier then chasing him and setting him up at distance. After getting his attention we talked about his problems and how Mom is extending herself trying to help and not to threaten because life is not treating him well. He goes on to say that he is embarassed that as grown man he is staying with his Mom, lost his house and wife. I explained that he is just one of the 1.5 millon or more people that are in that situation but the only one now threatening and upsetting my Mom. We love kiss and hug and pleadge to stay family and I head home at 2:00am.
Who says there is no need to practice self defense tactics, know this when your sport career is over as long as you got an a$$ you may have to protect it and your family members. Nothing is promised not the presence not even tomorrow. But I note even drunks watch MMA, thanks MMA for putting them in range, even if this time it was my kid brother. Mom was threaten changes everything there is no walk away imho.
Suggestions and thoughts pro and negative I'm thick skinned. How would you have handled it?