Guys-
I would LOVE to train the following:
*Boxing
*Greco-Roman wrestling
*Judo
*Freestyle wrestling
*Gi style Brazilian jiu-jitsu
*No-gi Brazilian jiu-jitsu
*Filipino stick and knife fighting
*Empty hand vs. the blade/shank and blunt instrument
*Multiple attacker scenarios and other scenario training
*Combat hand gun and shotgun
The problem is that there are only so many hours in a day.
As I would MUCH rather have a depth of knowledge in a few things rather than a limited knowledge in a LOT of things, I choose to limit my practice to those things that provide the most enjoyment and which to me, are the most realistic. For me that means combining boxing, Greco, no-gi jits - in short, MMA. There is just not enough time in my day to devote meaningful practice to the other things.
Aside from this is my firm belief that self-defense is an easy thing to bring about, providing that we have control of our ego and an intellect capable of making wise decisions. I’ve only had one minor altercation over the last 25 years. I must be doing a pretty good job of defending myself.
Also, the places that I frequent aren’t known for their wandering gangs. That’s partly a choice that I make. In most cases, I’d likely be dealing with one-on-one confrontations if anything. I’m not stupid enough to pi$$ off a group of guys hanging out together when I am outnumbered. I mean, who is? If you’re that dumb, natural selection states that you probably NEED to be beaten to a pulp anyway, leaving the more intelligent of us here to pass along our genes.
That said, if you HAVE incurred the wrath of a group of people, you will more than likely have to deal with them all at once, not one at a time. You also have to consider the fact that they may well be armed. Gangs of people here in the US carry weapons. Sorry, but I just don’t like my odds in those sorts of situations.
So it’s a simple matter of training what I believe is most realistic; one-on-one. Two or more people and I’m running away at the first opportunity. Sticking around in those situations for whatever reason defies the survival instinct for self-preservation.
Story time:
Just a week or so ago, I was at an intersection where another car pulled up along side of mine. There were three guys in the car and two pit bulls (dogs, not women). Bass was thumping from their car so loudly that my own rear view mirror was vibrating. The attitude emanating from the vehicle was so thick you could cut it. The guys were daring me to even look at them funny (gorillas as well, interpret direct eye to eye contact as a threat, so it’s funny how far down the evolutionary ladder people like this are in terms of mentality).
So what did I do? I smiled. Nothing more came from this at all, because I had complete control over my own ego. Because of this I was calm and secure in and of myself. As a result, I was able to make intelligent decisions and not compound problems by forcing myself to have to act “macho”. That would have only forced a further reaction from them as well.
What if my ego had been weaker?
Well, its entirely possible that I could have created a more difficult situation to get out of. It’s possible that they could have changed their “itinerary” and decide to follow me. Then what? Who knows because it would all be speculation. But I CAN guarantee that I would have suffered an unwanted outcome in some way, regardless of how that situation may have turned out.
The key here is that I wasn’t “afraid” of them individually. I knew I could “probably” TRASH each one of them individually in the ring or on the mats (same goes for asphalt). This lack of fear is the very thing that kept this situation from escalating. Lack of fear does NOT mean that I didn’t respect them collectively or even individually. I don’t disrespect or underestimate anyone as I’ve said before. You get the benefit of a doubt from me until proven otherwise.
So
why was there no fear? A very short answer would be because of “aliveness”. Thing is, that will probably get some folks’ bowels in an uproar, so I will just say that years of athletic training with resistance provided a confidence and inner strength sufficient enough to weather the storm, so to speak. And yes, that means training in COMBAT SPORTS by God! lol
In this situation, the athletic training that imparted
real confidence while eliminating the fragile ego kept me “safe” from potential multiple attackers. My training reinforced my confidence and enabled me to stay cool about things. Its also my firm belief that some forms of training can reinforce paranoia. But I won’t get into that at the moment.
So forgive me for the extended rant, but I wanted to further extrapolate on the merits of athletic training here for the purposes of self-preservation (which I see as separate from self-defense, which for me implies a “hands on” defense of self). Take it for what you will. It’s benefited me many times over, in a myriad of different ways.
Multiple opponents? Knives, guns?
Forget it. You can HAVE it.
-John